Sunday, April 22, 2018

Raising boys


Being a mother of boy/s will get you know how tough you really are! Like in literal sense! You may get punched in the face just because your toddler was playing with you! You cannot cry like a baby in front of him when he repeatedly says "JAO YAN SE" "SHUPP OJAO" because apparently you speak these words alot around him and see how it made u feel? Heartbroken! (Yes! You should be ashamed of yourself! And next time try harder in getting engaged with you son on a more personal level!) 
And then he comes around randomly and asks for the chapstick you had been applying before and wants to do the same. But NOOO! You cant let that happen! Your 'daqyanoosi' instinct rises all of a sudden, although, you had proclaimed previously in front of your husband that you may let him be ANYBODY he wants! (So much for high thoughts, eh?) 
You will be screamed upon, stepped upon, pushed and flykicked around your days because that's what a JAZBATI kid calls fun! He will hit other kids, oh but not every other kid, he will first analyse them and the weaker ones will get what they deserve. You will be shocked beyond belief as to how did you give birth to the son of Voldemort? But don't worry at all because he will give you wet full on lip-kisses because that's what he saw once or twice when you and his baba were doing (oops?). He will bring flowers for you and draw rainbows just for you. He will shower you with written notes saying "you are the best". He's going to laugh at your silliest faces and when you are trying, so hard, not to cry in front of him he will come closer and hold your face and say "taa hwaaa"
And, then, at that moment you will realise you are not at all strong! How can you be? When he brings so much love in his actions and purity in his words? You need to be stronger momma! Because being a mother of boy/s holds alot more than you can ever ask for! <3 span="">

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