The recipe for the perfect kid!

Okay so i see a lot of people asking about how to get that perfect gora/gori kid? So here is the TRIED AND TESTED recipe:

• Add a pinch of “momma genes”
• then a dash of “baba genes”
•   and a whole lot more of “I don’t give an F to your belief!”

And trust me this would do wonders! Repeat it till the person whose being judgmental accepts this fact. Sometimes people can use it for their own good too. It may have side effects like still hoping to miraculously give birth to a colored eyes and blond haired kid even if the generations had no face like that!

So I may ask what good a kid will bring if he or she is born chitta or chitti. NOTHING. I repeat nothing!

Even i was one of those proud moms who was born fair, by default! I swear my mother had no hand in it, she ate the same amount of broccoli that she ate for both my brothers. Anyway so i was just blessed with a baby and guess what he was extremely dark! Like maybe not extremely dark but the level and bar that i had set in my perfect mind for my perfect lil family...he was not even getting close to that. These pictures were honestly taken with a filter of 100 percent brightness so you can guess it yourself.

My friends asked me to send them the pictures of the new-born but honestly i was least interested in taking his picture. I mean why the world has to see a crying wailing baby and that too dark? I know i was stupid. Trust me i was way more stupid than that! But to tell you guys the truth, it wasn't about the dark colored baby or not matching to my skin-tone kid...it was about a part of me which had resided inside me for nine months and was finally out now … a breathing pooping human! I was alien of his emotions, of his needs, of his moods! I used to know about his needs (well to alil extent) because it matched my moods and hunger pangs (which I totally loved it) but now I was clueless as any first time mom would be!

I was exhausted, stitched up and sleep deprived mom! And loving my baby for who he is wasnt exactly on top of my list. Everybody goes through that phase! And please trust me when i say that you will get over the way he looks, will cross that bridge of fears and will eventually start loving your own kid as who he/she is! But you need to be strong and be absolutely clear on that one little topic that no matter how does your baby look, nobody has the right to judge him/her on his/her skin! To be frank, one shouldn’t be judging a child in ANY way but at least not on a pity matter where you don’t have any control over it whatsoever!

And guess what i still love my baby even though his complexion has changed. Nope not going to tell any totkas that I tried because honestly I dint! Just used a handful of ‘F-offs’ and ‘Don’t-cares’ ;)

Much love to all, the not so colored and colored kids, you all are beautiful ❤